Misgendering refers to addressing or referring to someone using pronouns or gender terms that don't align with their gender identity. In some debates, particularly around transgender youth, questions have arisen about whether consistent misgendering by parents should be considered a form of emotional abuse and grounds for loss of custody. Proponents argue that persistent misgendering can cause significant psychological harm to transgender children, and in severe cases, may justify state intervention to protect the child’s well-being. Opponents argue that removing custody over misgendering infringes on parental rights, may criminalize disagreement or confusion over gender identity, and could lead to overreach by the state into family matters.
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27% Yes |
73% No |
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73% No |
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@B4MYRBK7 days7D
They should not default lose custody, but this should be considered as a form of abuse that can be taken into consideration when discussing custody issues.
@B4M4Y521wk1W
Parents should be mandated to meet with a family councillor to evaluate the instance of abuse outside of misgendering. If the parents attempt to forcefully restrict the child’s self determination in other ways, then removal could be considered.
@B4M2Q3L1wk1W
Hard to agree because for some foster care might be even worse than their parents so in terms of harm reduction I'm unsure
@B4LT4951wk1W
While misgendering your child is terrible I don’t think it alone should be enough reason for a parent to lose custody. If a parent misgenders their child along with other forms of abuse then they definitely should.
@B4KXH4L1wk1W
If prolonged intentional misgendering then yes- serious risk of harm to child. Would need more parameters on this q.
@B4KHYS51wk1W
Losing custody is too severe there should be some other short of punishment to ensure that it won't happen again. However if the new punishment happens to the same person multiple times then they should lose custody.
@B4LZ3J41wk1W
I think there needs to be more nuance here to consider what is best for the child considering how useless our foster care is in helping kids
@B4LP6BK1wk1W
If the child is below the age of 16 and is trying to you have a choice but over 16 you should follow what they ask for
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